Surviving Infidelity

Surviving Infidelity

Is Your Husband or Boyfriend Having a Summer Affair? by Ruth Houston

Summertime is peak season for cheating husbands. Extra marital affairs flourish this time of the year. Many men view summer infidelity as a recreational sport. Some husbands are seasonal cheaters who only cheat when their wives are away on vacation. Other husbands are opportunistic cheaters who cheat only when there's an opportunity do so without getting caught.

For all three types of cheating men, summer is the ideal time to initiate an extramarital affair.
Most Summer Affairs Go Undetected.

According to statistics, 50% to 70% of husbands cheat on their wives. A good percentage of these affairs take place during the summer months. Most of this infidelity goes undetected. Studies reveal that 2/3 of the women with cheating husbands have no idea their husbands are having an affair. There are a number of tactics cheating husbands use to hide their summer affairs.

Husbands Play While Their Wives are Away.

Some husbands make a practice of sending the wife and kids to the beach, the lake, the country, the mountains, or to visit relatives in another state. What's your husband up to while you and the kids are away? Where is he? Who is he with? How is he spending his time? Instead of sitting home with a pizza and a beer, he could be out wining and dining his ladylove.

Fictitious Fishing Trips and other Lies.

Cheating husbands frequently disguise vacations with their mistress as fishing, camping or rafting trips with the guys. Men know that outdoor activities and other forms of male bonding are unlikely to be questioned by their wives. Is he really hiking the Appalachian Trail with his buddies? Or soaking up sun in St. Thomas with his summer sweetheart?

Bogus Business Trips.

Trysts with the mistress are often disguised as bogus business trips. Even valid business trips can provide the perfect opportunity to cheat away from prying eyes. While he's attending that summer business conference without you, a budding office romance could blossom into a full blown affair. Are his trips occurring more frequently or lasting longer than usual? Has he tacked on an extra day or two before or after a legitimate business trip so he can spend the time with his lover?

Suspicious Separate Vacations.

Has your husband suggested (or insisted) that the two of you take separate vacations this year? Where does he plan to go? Who will he be vacationing with? He could be laying the groundwork for a summer affair. Will he be living it up in Las Vegas with his lover while you're enjoying a week of pampering at a spa? If you have reason to suspect that your husband could be cheating, you may want to re-think your summer plans.

What to Do About His Summer Affair.

Learn to recognize the signs of a summer affair from the free summer infidelity tip sheet offered below. If you see telltale signs of a summer affair developing or actually taking place, SPEAK UP! Ignoring it won't make it go away. Let your husband know you're aware of what's going on and tell him you want it to stop. If you let him think he's getting away with his affair this summer, he'll feel free to do it again next year. Or worse, he may continue it throughout the year. Though summer affairs usually have a built-in expiration date, many cheaters turn their summer flings into a permanent state of affairs. Your husband could become so attached to his mistress, that he moves in with her or asks you for a divorce. The tip sheet on summer infidelity gives advice on how to short-circuit his summer affair.

How to Prevent a Summer Affair.

Does this mean you should forego renting that beach house for the summer or put that 2-week trip to your parents on hold? If you've seen suspicious behavior or signs of infidelity during the past few weeks or months, this is not a good time for you to be away.
If your husband is a recreational, seasonal or opportunistic cheater, don't make it easy for him to cheat. Stay close to home, keep tabs on him, and stay alert. Safeguard your marriage by putting some checks and balances in place. If you follow the suggestions in the summer infidelity tip sheet, he won't have the time or the opportunity to carry on a summer affair.

© copyright 2005-2006 Ruth Houston. All rignts reserved.

About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, which documents practically every known sign of infidelity. To request the Summer Infidelity Tip Sheet which lists the telltale signs of a summer affair and includes tips on how to short circuit your husband's summer affair, or prevent him from having a summer fling, send an e-mail to SummerInfidelity@gmail.com with "Summer Affairs-go" in the subject line.
For more information about summer infidelity visit www.SummerInfidelity.com To interview Ruth Houston or have her speak to your association or group, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

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