A really good article on ways to tell if your boyfriend is cheating from relation expert Zandra.
The worst thing a relationship can suffer is cheating. Cheating is the destroyer of any good relationship. But a lot of women don't want to end their relationships on the account of one mistake. Getting over the betrayal of an affair can prove to be a very difficult thing to do. So a lot of women end up wondering and worrying if he'll cheat again, and worrying how will they know if he is cheating on them.
Here are some great tips that will alert you to his cheating.
5 Powerful Signs of Cheating
1. Too much attention to his appearance- Getting your man dressed and looking nice has always been a struggle. This guy has never cared too much about how he's dressed so when he suddenly starts taking an interest in his appearance this should set off signals and bells about why. If there is no legitimate reason for his new found interest in looking good then the next obvious reason is to impress his new love interest.
Men and women both start to care more about their appearance when they're trying to catch the eye of another. Be suspicious of the new attention that he pays to the way he looks, because he's trying to captivate his new love's heart. It's a definite sign of cheating if every time he gets cleaned up he has to leave and go somewhere else. He's trying to look good for someone that is for sure.
2. Suddenly unavailable- It didn't matter what time of the day or night you called him he would answer your call. If he couldn't answer your call he would call you back as soon as possible. He always made time for you and the things that you had to do. Now it seems that he's just so busy that he can't do anything with you anymore. You call he doesn't answer. You call him, and it takes hours for him to call you back. It's a miracle that you actually got a response at all.
The fact that he's suddenly unavailable to you signifies that he is otherwise occupied. If he's spending time with another woman then he definitely can't take attention away from her to give to you. That's why your calls and texts are being ignored. They're not important enough to answer at that time. He can't carry out his goals of getting her to fall in love with him, or to have sex with him if he has to stop in the middle of his seduction to get a grocery list from you.
3. Smells like perfume- The majority of women on this earth wears some kind of perfumed product on their bodies every day. Whether it's the shampoos, lotions, lipsticks, perfumes, or body washes women are attracted to what smells pretty and pleasant. So if you start to notice that he smells like lilacs when you love the smell of roses you got to wonder how did this particular scent get on his body. Perfumes have a way of transferring on to another person depending on the quality that is used. This is a clear indicator that he's been closer than normal to some woman somewhere.
You should also watch out for things like glitter, lip gloss, and any other types of make up smears. Most men don't want these things on them even if they're not cheating so if it's on him it's because he was close to a female who had these things on her. I don't know about you, but my mother doesn't wear glitter so when he tells you that I'd be suspicious. Just know that these things can be a signal of infidelity on his part.
4. Acts nervous- Your man is always confident and so sure of himself. He knows everything, can tell you anything, and can do anything when he puts his mind to it. Seems so strange that when you ask him a question he looks like a deer caught in headlights. Not only that but his whole demeanor is less than the confident man you're used to dealing with.
When you're guy starts displaying nervous, agitated, or secretive behavior there's a reason why. That reason is his guilty conscious is doing a number on him. Cheaters have a lot of things to worry about. They don't want the consequences, the bad results, and they definitely don't want to get caught so they're reacting to their own guilt by behaving in these ways. When your man is doing this he's definitely do something he has no business doing.
5. Starts arguments for no reason- This is a tactic that cheaters use to get out of the house. If you're man no longer loves you then his reasons for arguing with you is to get away from you to be with her. So he picks an argument with you so that this will be his excuse for being gone, and for being gone for a long time. What a great way to cover yourself.
So if your man starts arguing with you about the dumbest things there may be a reason why he's doing it. That reason may be to spend time with his other woman. He can't actually just walk away and be gone for a long period of time without any explanation. That's the reason for the argument. So he has to have a good reason why he is absent.
If you're noticing more than one time of these cheating behaviors from your man, and you feel deeply within your heart that this is what's going on this is good enough reason to investigate a little further.
The chances of your boyfriend cheating on you again is always going to be high since he's already done it once. You already know his tactics so all you would have to do is pay attention to the details. If you haven't went and got professional counseling then it's very likely that he will cheat again if the situation permits itself for him to do so.
These 10 powerful signs will help you to detect cheating sooner than ever before. There are behaviors that all cheaters do that they're unaware of. Once you've learned to recognize these symbols you can detect cheater 100% quicker. This book is jam packed with all the tips, tricks, and techniques that cheaters use to get away with having an affair. It even comes with 5 free chapters that explain how to catch a cheater in great detail. You don't have to put up with a cheater ever again. Top Secret Cheating Tips!
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